Girl Next Door

I've been oblivious to somethings, such as women liking me. I'm just going to come right out and say it. Clueless! It happens to all of us. That in itslef is not entirely my fault. All of us put people in a certain category or even so the other person hides their feelings about the person they like.

Take it back some years, I moved back into North Carolina from Texas and into a new neighborhood. Now I was in 5th grade at the time so I was enjoying life and doing boy things. I was interested in girls but not to the point where sex was on my mind, unlike some friends I know.

So my neighbors, (SN: if you read one of my previous posts, the same one that had a rifle pointed at me from the window while I was having sex in my backyard) had granddaughters that lived with them. The yougest was about my age. Nice family, a bit old fashioned but expected since the grandparents were raising them.

So I would go over to their house, because my father would send me to ask questions or get something. As soon as I would step foot in the yard, the girls had to go into the house. Now at about 10 or 11 years old I thought nothing about that. Although I found it a bit strange. I knew I didn't have the cooties.

We are now out of elementary school going into Jr. High, which is called middle school now, so I've got friends coming over, I'm walking to various neighborhoods, I'm going to friends houses to play video games all this being said is with a little more freedom. So still not thinking about anything I went next door to visit let's call her Felicia. She wouldn't go back in the house when I showed up. So we could play and talk. She was still at that stage where hitting boys meant you liked them. Did I know that? Noooooo. It was fun none the less.

High School: Awwwwww Shit! Growing up, smelling my piss, bad! Now I left out a couple of things. 1. during the time as neighbors the girl Felicia got picked on because of her skin complexion. Now being a cruel child yes I laughed and joined in the reindeer games when she wasn't in my presences. I got to know her and the issues she was going through. My dad told me, "You need to quit picking on her because when she grows up, you will be looking at her a lot differently." So I took his advice and cut out all the immaturity.

Shortly after my father passed away, we found a house in a new neighborhood and began to pack everything up. One day while packing my mother went on and I was left at the soon to be vacant house, I heard Felicia call my name. So I go over to her and she asks me all these questions about where I was going and etc. Finally she says to me, "You know I like you?"  I was floored! Like I said OBLIVIOUS! So I ask her, "Why would you wait until now?" "Well you know how things were at school. I just didn't have the confidence plus the issue with my grandparents pertaining to me dating." So I had to ask the question, "So what happened between me and your friend didn't matter?" She said, "I didn't care. It made me want to talk to you more!"

So all this time I never knew. Sometimes there is someone paying you some attention that you don't even know.

"Think beyond the confines of your own world!"

It's been a long time

I haven't touched this blog in quite some time. I'm still breathing. LOL There has been changes in my life but the stories haven't stopped! New things in 2012 coming soon!

Documentary

Today will be the last day of filming a quite interesting documentary. It's amazing the people that are interested in this subject are not the people that I'd expect. The issue of slavery is an eye opener. Even though what happened to black slaves is terrible, we need to learn from it not hold a grudge or think it is beneath us.

Anyway enjoy the 4th!

"Think beyond the confines of your own world!"

The blog will go to video soon even if it goes to another page!

Obliging a friend

February 11, 2011! It's Friday you got off your job and you got shit to do!  Valentine's Day stuff to do!  For most people this is when Valentine's Day start and continue all the way through Monday the 14th.  If you got it like that then by all means go for it! If you don't then don't break yourself trying to please the other person because it is just one in the many that you have and will spend together! Now if the other person is just that selfish then you might want to evaluate your relationship!

Which brings me to my question: If you were single and had a friend of the opposite sex(also single), would you oblige them if there is some kind of physical or emotional void in their life?

Here is the story: Lester is a single man that is at a point in his life where he is not wanting to be in a relationship. He is good with his friends and he does not cross the line with his female friends.

Now in helping out one of his friends he come to meet let's call her Venus. Now Venus was good people. Venus really liked Lester but Lester let Venus know where he stood on having any kind of involvement in her love life. They did exchange numbers.

So one day Lester gets a call from Venus. She invites him over. Lester goes over there. She stated that she wanted to kiss Lester only. Lester agrees and he reiterated his stance on crossing the line with his female friends. Venus was horny before Lester came over. So as they kissed she became more aroused. She asked him to have sex with him.

Now I'll leave it at that to have your imagination wonder but what would you do if it was you?

I'm off for the weekend! I have a couple of Valentine's to prepare for. My kids as well as my girlfriend.

Well I don't know if I'll post anything on my blog on Valentine's Day, you'll just have to keep looking.

Leave me a comment below or on Facebook!

Think about if that situation came up on or just before Valentine's Day!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!
3 days left!

I would like to do these questions on video but I would need some actors. Leave me a note in the comment field as well.

I get to choose! Part 2

February 10, 2011! OMG!!(sarcastically. I never say that in real life) 4 more days. For most of us Valentine's Day will start tomorrow! It will be the last day you can order flowers for Monday.  All the stores shelves will be ravaged because the holiday candy will be ran all through! Have fun tomorrow! Hopefully you planned ahead!

On to today's question: If you were approached by your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend to sleep with them would you do it?

Obviously this is a loaded question. If anyone is willing to respond to it, most of the responses (especially from the women folk) will be no! Probably with a Double Exclamation Point!!

This is called I get to choose! Part 2, so you might want to read the previous blog: I get to choose!

Well that brings us back to Vernon and Mattie. If you remember (or went back and read)that Mattie told Vernon that now he gets to sleep with one of his friends. Surprisingly enough Vernon agrees to it but the terms are Vernon gets to choose who it is.

Let's call the unsuspecting person Henry. Henry has been hanging out with Vernon and Mattie from day one. He has never played in any of their reindeer games. 

Shortly after the decision has been made about Henry, Mattie starts showing an interest in Henry. She would spend more time talking with him. She would even get closer than she needed. Henry didn't think nothing of it until one day Mattie corner Henry. She asked him about what he thought about sleeping with Cassy or better yet with her.  She noticed that Henry was getting aroused as her conversation went on but it was short lived because Vernon, Mattie and Henry had to leave together.

So fast forward a couple of weeks, it was set up that Vernon, Mattie, Cassy and Henry were all going to be in a room together. When in actuality it only going to be Vernon, Mattie and Henry.

Mattie kept saying that Cassy was coming and that she was running late. (Cassy had no interest in Henry) So Vernon and Mattie had sex. After they finished Mattie asked Vernon if she could go ahead an sleep with Henry. She came from the bedroom naked and said to Henry, "Since Cassy was late how about me and you having sex?"

I had someone ask me if I was making this stuff up?  Fact is stranger than fiction!

So the question is: If you were approached by your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend to sleep with them would you do it?

Leave your answers or comments in the comment box on the blog or Facebook

Think about if that situation came up on or just before Valentine's Day!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!

4 days left!

I would like to do these questions on video but I would need some actors. Leave me a note in the comment field as well.

Tomorrow's Blog: Obliging a friend

They weren't as good as.....

February 9, 2011 Five more days! Wow the weekend approached and Valentine's Day!

Here is a question: If you came in on the end of a conversation where your boyfriend/girlfriend was talking about some people that they slept with but found out it was recently, what would you do?

Story Time!

If you've read my "Sex at GunPoint!" blog then we will be going back to Devin(me) & Char.

Well one of my friend knows that Char is no good for me so he decides to hook Char up with 3 people that both of us know. So since I had a job during the day and some of these guys had were off during the day. When I got off work then Char would be with me.

So one day I get a call from Char telling me that she was at a convenient store. So I went to the store. I walked in and my friend was listening to Char. As I got closer the only thing I heard was Char, "I don't know why you did that because none of them were better than Devin." I had no idea what they were talking about.

Now it was told to me later that my friend hooked them up to make her leave me because he knew that she would've cheated and was cheating on me during the course of our relationship.

I was pretty upset once I got the whole story. She didn't get to make it to the third guy. Should I have been just as equally flattered that she still considered me better than the other men?

The question at hand is: What would you do if that was you, coming in on the tail end of that conversation?

Leave your comment down below or on Facebook!

Think about if that situation came up on or just before Valentine's Day!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!

5 days left!

I would like to do these questions on video but I would need some actors. Leave me a note in the comment field as well.

Tomorrow's Blog: I get to choose! Part 2

Musical Clothes!

February 8, 2011

Six days and counting!  Tick, tick, tick, tick!  People are hopefully getting that reservation to the restaurant of their choice, their gifts, chocolates, hotels, flowers and etc.!  Me I'm just waiting to get paid on the 11th! My company's Valentine's Gift to me! LOL! I'll do something nice for my girlfriend, what it is? I won't tell you!

And now on to the question for today: Have you ever tried to put your clothes while someone is taking your clothes off?

This is a little crazy but I brought this one on myself.

So I was seeing this woman, let's call her Nikki. Well I broke off our relationship because something I felt things weren't right. I went over to her place to sit with her but she had other plans. Like I said I brought this on myself. Well as we sat there she wanted to have sex. I refused. She started to kiss me in my hot spots, so I got up from the couch. She began to lift up my shirt, I pulled it back down. She grabbed my belt to loosen it. I went to stop her so she pulled my shirt over my head. I pull my shirt back down so she had loosened my belt and started to undo my pants! I grabbed my pants and she got my shirt up. She licked on me for a sec. I got into it but I regained my senses. I pulled my shirt back down but she had my pants unbuttoned. I had to grab my pants and backed away from her!

The both of us were huffing and puffing. We looked at each other. I left. Now I was told it was my fault walking into the lion's den with the hungry lion and not expect to get attacked! Lesson learned unless I want to get attacked! LOL

So have you ever been attacked and not in the horrifying rape manner (unless you are into that sort of role play), to keep your clothes on while they are being taken off?

Leave your comment down below or on Facebook!

Think about if that situation came up on or just before Valentine's Day!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!

6 days left!

I would like to do these questions on video but I would need some actors. Leave me a note in the comment field as well.

Tomorrow's Blog: They weren't as good as.....